In Praise of Knit Wits

I'm a sweater girl. Oh, I'm devoted to my sturdy, throw-it-on, functional fleece. But there's nothing like thick wool or supersoft cashmere to make me feel warm, cozy -- and something extra. Classic, maybe? Distinct? Stylin'? Many of my sweaters were knit by my gifted late mom, adding a whole extra meaning to "warm-and-fuzzy."

What I really like about hand-knits: Their personality! Nobody else has a sweater, scarf, vest, etc. just like it. And when the knitter goes that extra level beyond basic to create something with a story -- it's magic!

So now that the weather's cold and I've hauled out the woolies, it seems like a fitting time to share some standouts from my Witty Knit Hall of Fame:

Hand-knit sweater with kitten face on front


What a Dad I Had

You know the expression, "You can take the boy out of the small town, but you can't take the small town out of the boy"? That was my dad. He died last week, just 20 days shy of his 88th birthday.


Sylvester Patyk may have raised a tract-house-full of suburbanites (five of us) and lived in three different 'burbs himself, but for my whole life he seemed like a fish out of water. He was a small town fellow through and through, born in tiny Wakefield, Michigan, among the lakes, forests, farms, and mines of the beautiful Upper Peninsula. (Picture Bedford Falls from that old movie, "It's a Wonderful Life.")

 

Paula Spencer's father


I'm still processing his being gone – it was amazingly sudden, even though he'd been in decline – but his passing has me thinking a lot about a person's legacy. And how that legacy is tied to place...

What Makes Fall Smell So Swell?

Walking into a bakery this week, I sniffed the allspicy, gingery splendiferousness of pumpkin pie. Okay, so my sniffer has been pumpkin-programmed ever since I wrote about the great pumpkin shortage last week. (I'd like to say I walked into *my kitchen* and smelled the pie, but alas I haven't yet mustered the courage to roast and mash and bake with a whole pumpkin…but thanks for all the great tips…will keep you posted!)

That spicy pie smell, I realized, is just one of the reasons I'm so invigorated this time of year...

Searching for the Great Pumpkin

I know it's a bad week to admit I hate Halloween. But I do: I'm too shy for dressing up, too easily spooked by ghouls and goblins. Even the candy part I can do without. All that said, I *love* this time of year…it's the season of Orange!

Pumpkins! Sweet potatoes! Chrysanthemums! Persimmons! (I just ate my first one, yum!) Falling orange leaves! And did I mention pumpkins?!

Orange has been "my" color as long as anyone who knows me can remember. Family photos going back to my third birthday feature an annual cake finished in orange icing. My bedroom walls were bright orange; I even had an orange-haired doll. I still gravitate to the color as a grown-up, whether in my favorite Patagonia fleece or the aforementioned mums. And nothing cheers me like seeing pumpkins on front porches, especially when they're left uncarved.

Because I've seen so many, I've been a little slow to discover the black truth about this orange season...

Paula as a pumpkin

Grace Notes

I'm tickled to join MaryJane's roster of scribblers expanding the notion that farmgirl isn't a just place on the map, but a place of the heart.

True confessions (as the title of this blog makes clear): I was born suburban and raised suburban. I detoured briefly to New York City (I'm a writer after all) but now I'm raising my kids suburban, too.

Despite all the cul de sacs, WalMarts, and store-bought tomatoes, something a little bit country has always two-stepped inside me.

Bonanza: Ponderosa Party Time

Paula Spencer and her daughter

Paula Spencer
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” and journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s the Woman’s Day magazine “Momfidence” columnist and a contributing editor of Parenting, the author of Momfidence!, and a collaborator on 8 other books, including The Happiest Toddler on the Block. Way at the opposite end of the age spectrum, she’s also a senior editor of Caring.com, a leading eldercare resource. Best and not least, she’s a mom of four.

She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys. You can learn more about Paula in future posts.

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